Military Wedding Options: Proxy Marriage
Military Marriage: 10 Things You Might Not Know
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Exceptions to privacy include suspected harm to self or others.
Non-archival records are those from 62 years ago to the present.
You don't need advanced permission and there is no special military paperwork to fill out before the marriage.